Best Stroker for Gay Men: A Comprehensive Product Review

Welcome, darling! We all know that self-love is an essential part of any fabulous gay man's life. But with so many options out there, how can you possibly choose the perfect stroking toy that meets your unique needs? Fear not, because we've done the dirty work for you. We've put the top stroking toys for gay men to the test and are ready to spill the tea on which ones will give you the most orgasmic experience. Get ready to take matters into your own hands with our comprehensive product review.

How We Review Masturbators for Gay Men

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We also value what you think! Customer feedback is our secret sauce. If a toy is getting rave reviews from the community, you bet it's getting a thumbs up from us too.

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The best Gay Male Masturbators of 2024

#1 Get Handy with one of the Best Automatic Stroking Toy

Oh honey, let me tell you all about The Handy - one of the best automatic stroking toy on the market! This baby is a game-changer, and I should know - I've tried them all!

Why do we love The Handy?

Well, let me count the ways. First off, it's versatile - just like me! You can customize your experience with interchangeable sleeves that provide a range of textures and sensations. And with a motor that delivers up to 10 strokes per second, this toy will have you singing hallelujah in no time!

But that's not all, honey. The Handy also offers a hands-free masturbator thanks to its adjustable arm and suction cup base. So if you're feeling lazy (or just want to keep your hands free for other activities), this is the toy for you!

Now, let's dish some dirt.

The Handy can be a bit loud - but let's be real, if you're using a toy like this, you're probably not concerned with being discreet, are you? And yes, it's on the pricier side, but trust me, it's worth every penny!

So why is The Handy a top stroker?

Well, it's simple, really. This toy offers a unique combination of power, versatility, and customization that sets it apart from the rest. And the hands-free experience? Well, that's just the icing on the cake, honey!

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	Up to 10 strokes per second
Sleeve options	Interchangeable
Hands-free experience	Yes

Product Specifications

Material	ABS plastic, silicone
Size	9.8 x 2.6 x 2.6 inches
Weight	1.5 pounds
Power source	AC adapter

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Customizable fit with adjustable grip
• Can be used with VR porn for a more immersive experience
• Can be controlled remotely via the app
• Comes with a variety of attachments for a more personalized experience

Cons

• Expensive
• Can be quite loud
• Requires a stable internet connection to operate the app
• Might not be suitable for individuals with a larger than average penis size

FAQ

Q: Is The Handy easy to clean?

A: Yes, The Handy's sleeves are removable and can be easily cleaned with soap and water.

Q: Can The Handy be used with a partner?

A: While The Handy is designed for solo use, it can also be used with a partner for added pleasure.

Q: Can The Handy be used with lube?

A: Yes, The Handy is compatible with water-based lubricants.

Q: How long does The Handy's motor last?

A: The Handy's motor is built to last and has a lifespan of up to 10,000 hours.

Q: Can The Handy be used in the shower?

A: No, The Handy is not waterproof and should not be used in water.

Overall, The Handy is a top automatic stroking toy that delivers power, versatility, and customization. While it may be on the pricier side, its hands-free experience and interchangeable sleeves make it worth the investment.

#2 Fleshy Pro™: The Most Stylish and Customizable Automatic Stroker

This toy is not your granddad's stroker. It's sleek, stylish, with multiple modes for every mood - just like my fabulous wardrobe! The Fleshy Pro™ combines three different sensations - vibration, suction, and tugging - to create a unique and unforgettable experience.

The vacuum feature is particularly impressive, providing a sensation that sets it apart from other similar products on the market. And with 10 different vibration and massage modes, there's something for everyone.

The Fleshy Pro™'s Blowjob Function works by using a combination of suction and vibration to simulate the sensation of oral sex. The toy is designed to fit snugly around the penis and create a vacuum-like suction that feels like a real mouth.

It also has a vibration function that provides added stimulation to the user.

Are you ready to hear about the latest and greatest automatic stroking toy? Well, buckle up, because we're about to spill the tea on the Fleshy Pro™!

Now, let's talk about the not-so-fabulous parts.

Let's be real, this toy is on the heavier side - so unless you're pumping iron like I am, holding it for extended periods of time might be a bit of a challenge.

But despite these minor issues, the Fleshy Pro™ is still a top male masturbator in my book. Its unique features make it a top choice for those who want to take their solo pleasure to the next level. And with its powerful motor and multiple vibration settings, you'll never have a dull moment.

Product Specifications

Material	Silicone + TPE
Size	215'' x 69'' x 69''
Weight	536 g
Battery	800 Amh
Charging Time	120 minutes
Battery life	60 minutes

Pros and Cons

Pros

• The vacuum feature is truly unique and sets it apart from other toys on the market. It provides a sensation that goes beyond traditional vibration.
• The realistic feel of the silicone is amazing! It replicates the feeling of human skin, providing a truly immersive experience.
• With 10 different vibration and massage modes, there's something for everyone. Whether you like it gentle or intense, there's a setting for you.
• The ergonomic design makes it easy to use in any position, whether you're playing solo or with a partner.
• It's lightweight and discreet, making it easy to travel with or store away.
• The price point is great compared to other similar toys on the market.

Cons

• The suction feature can be a bit intense at times. It may not be suitable for those who are more sensitive.
• The max insertion length of 14 cm may not be long enough for some users.

FAQ

Q: What is the Fleshy Pro™ Massager?

A: The Fleshy Pro™ Massager is a unique sex toy that combines suction, vibration, and tugging to provide a truly unforgettable experience. It's designed to replicate the feeling of human skin, with a specially designed vacuum pump and RealSkin™ Technology.

Q: How do I use the Fleshy Pro™ Massager?

A: The Fleshy Pro™ Massager is easy to use. Simply apply some water-based lubricant, like Glide, to the toy and take it to town. Turn on the vibration and suction features to experience the full range of sensations.

Q: Is the Fleshy Pro™ Massager safe to use?

A: Yes, the Fleshy Pro™ Massager is made from soft medical-grade silicone that is odorless, and non-toxic. It's also easy to clean and maintain.

Q: Can I use the Fleshy Pro™ Massager with a partner?

A: Yes, the Fleshy Pro™ Massager is suitable for solo or shared experiences.

Q: How long does the battery last?

A: The Fleshy Pro™ Massager can last up to 30 minutes on a single charge. It comes with a MiniJack-USB charging cable for easy charging.

At a price point of $69.99 (compared to a retail price of $120.00), the Fleshy Pro™ offers excellent value for money. And with fast and discreet shipping, you can be sure that you'll get your product quickly and confidentially.

#3 Arcwave Voy: The Perfect Fit for the Best Stroking Experience

Honey, this toy is unlike anything you've ever experienced before. With its patented Pleasure Air technology, it provides a sensation that mimics oral sex - and let's face it, who doesn't want that? And with its customizable fit, you'll never have to worry about a bad fit ruining your pleasure party!

Now, let's get real, there are a couple of things to keep in mind.

The Arcwave Voy's Pleasure Air technology can take a bit of getting used to - but trust me, once you do, you'll be in heaven! And yes, it's on the pricier side - but let's be real, can you put a price on pleasure?

So why is the Arcwave Voy a top stroker?

Its Pleasure Air technology provides a unique and realistic experience that sets it apart from other stroking toys on the market. And with its adjustable sleeve, you'll always have a customized fit that's just right for you!

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	N/A (uses Pleasure Air technology)
Sleeve Options	Adjustable
Hands-free experience	No

Product Specifications

Material	ABS plastic, silicone
Size	8.5 x 2 x 2.5 inches
Weight	1.2 pounds
Power Source	USB rechargeable

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex
• Comes with an air-pressure technology that enhances the experience
• Ergonomic design for a comfortable grip
• Easy to clean and maintain

Cons

• Expensive
• Might not be suitable for individuals with a larger than average penis size
• Air-pressure technology might not be for everyone
• Requires a bit of a learning curve to get used to the product

FAQ

Q: Is the Arcwave Voy easy to clean?

A: Yes, the Arcwave Voy's sleeve is removable and can be easily cleaned with soap and water.

Q: Can the Arcwave Voy be used with a partner?

A: While the Arcwave Voy is designed for solo use, it can also be used with a partner for added pleasure.

Q: Can the Arcwave Voy be used with lube?

A: Yes, the Arcwave Voy is compatible with water-based lubricants.

Q: How long does the Arcwave Voy's battery last?

A: The Arcwave Voy's battery provides up to an hour of use on a single charge.

Q: Is the Arcwave Voy waterproof?

A: Yes, the Arcwave Voy is waterproof and can be used in water.

Overall, the Arcwave Voy is a top stroking toy for those who want a unique and realistic experience. While its Pleasure Air technology may take some getting used to, its adjustable sleeve and USB rechargeable feature make it a top choice for those who want a more customized experience.

#4 Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip: Take Your Pleasure on the Go with the Best Portable Fleshlight

This toy from Fleshlight (no relation to Fleshy) may be a classic, but it's still just as fabulous as ever. Its discreet and compact design makes it perfect for when you're on the go - because let's face it, pleasure shouldn't have to wait! And with its unique Grip texture, you'll be moaning and groaning in ecstasy in no time.

Now, let's dish some dirt.

The Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip can be a bit of a diva when it comes to cleaning - butnothing worth having comes easy! And its open-ended design may not provide enough suction for some users - but hey, we all have different tastes.?

But despite these minor issues, the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip is still a top stroker in my book. Its classic design and realistic Grip texture make it a top choice for those who want a manual stroking experience that's both pleasurable and realistic. And with its discreet and compact design, you can take your pleasure anywhere you go!

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	N/A
Sleeve Options	N/A
Hands-free experience	No

Product Specifications

Material	TPR
Size	5.5 x 3.5 x 3.5 inches
Weight	0.35 pounds

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Simple yet effective design
• Affordable
• Easy to clean and maintain
• Comes with a textured grip for added pleasure

Cons

• Not customizable
• Might require the use of lubrication for a smoother experience
• Might not be discreet enough for some users

FAQ

Q: Can the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip be used hands-free?

A: Yes, sweetie, the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip has a non-slip grip that allows for hands-free pleasure.

Q: How often should I clean my Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip?

A: We recommend cleaning it after every use, honey. You don't want any unwanted surprises.

Q: Can I warm up the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip before use?

A: Yes, darling, you can warm it up by placing it in warm water for a few minutes before use.

Q: Is the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip customizable?

A: Yes, honey, you can adjust the pressure and suction for a customized experience.

Q: Can I use the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip for anal play?

A: No, my love, the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip is designed for penile use only. Check out our guide on how to prepare for anal sex, bottom, for tips on making it enjoyable.

Overall, the Fleshlight Fleshskins Grip is a top manual stroking toy that provides a realistic and pleasurable experience. While its tricky cleaning process and open-ended design may not be for everyone, its compact and discreet design make it a top choice for those who want to take their pleasure on the go.

#5 Hot Octopuss Pulse: Buzz Your Way to Pleasure with the Best Vibrating Stroking Toy

The Hot Octopuss Pulse - the vibrating stroking toy that's hotter than a summer day in Palm Springs!

With its powerful motor and nine different vibration patterns, you'll be writhing in pleasure before you even know what hit you! And the patented PulsePlate technology? Well, let's just say it's like having a partner who knows just how to please you - without any of the annoying drama!

But let's not forget the not-so-fabulous parts.

The vibration patterns can be a bit overwhelming - but hey, when it comes to pleasure, sometimes you gotta try 'em all, right? And yes, it's a bit on the pricier side - but let's be real, can you put a price on a good orgasm?

So why is the Hot Octopuss Pulse a top stroker?

Its unique combination of vibration patterns and oscillating sensation make it a top choice for those who want a range of sensations that will make their toes curl. And you'll feel like you've got a partner who knows just how to push your buttons.

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	Up to nine vibration patterns
Sleeve Options	N/A
Hands-free experience	No

Product Specifications

Material	ABS plastic, silicone
Size	4.5 x 2.9 x 2.7 inches
Weight	0.6 pounds
Power Source	USB rechargeable

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Comes with various vibration patterns and intensities
• Can be used both as a stroking toy and a couples toy
• Designed to stimulate the frenulum
• Easy to clean and maintain

Cons

• Expensive
• Requires a bit of a learning curve to get used to the product
• Might be too intense for some users

FAQ

Q: Is the Hot Octopuss Pulse noisy?

A: No, sweetie, the Hot Octopuss Pulse is designed to be discreet and relatively quiet.

Q: How long does it take to charge the Hot Octopuss Pulse?

A: It takes about 3 hours to charge fully.

Q: Can the Hot Octopuss Pulse be used with a partner?

A: Yes, darling, the Hot Octopuss Pulse can be a great addition to couples' play.

Q: Is the Hot Octopuss Pulse waterproof?

A: Yes, honey, the Hot Octopuss Pulse is waterproof, so you can take it in the shower with you.

Q: Can the Hot Octopuss Pulse be used with lube?

A: Yes, my love, you can use lube with the Hot Octopuss Pulse for added sensation.

Overall, the Hot Octopuss Pulse is a top vibrating stroking toy that provides a range of sensations. While its vibration patterns may take some getting used to, its patented PulsePlate technology and powerful motor make it a top choice for those who want a more realistic and pleasurable experience.

#6 Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage: The Best Easy-to-Clean Stroking Toy

Well, well, well, my kinky kittens! We're talking about the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage - the stroking toy that'll make you feel like you're on cloud nine!

For those of you who aren't familiar, the Quickshot is a small, handheld stroking toy designed to give you maximum pleasure with minimal cleanup. It's made by the good folks at Fleshlight, who are known for their high-quality men's toys that are both functional and fun.

The Quickshot is the perfect toy for those of us who don't want to spend all day cleaning up after a good wank. It's made of body-safe materials that are easy to clean and disinfect, so you can spend more time enjoying yourself and less time scrubbing away at hard-to-reach crevices.

But let's get real, nothing's perfect, not even this little gem.

The only downside to the Quickshot is that it's not designed for people with larger penises. If you're well-endowed, you may find that the toy is a bit too small for you to fully enjoy.

So why is the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage a top stroker?

The Quickshot is made of two separate parts that can be easily removed and cleaned. Simply take the toy apart, wash it with warm water and soap, and then let it air dry. You can also use a toy cleaner to disinfect the toy if you want to be extra careful.

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	N/A
Sleeve Options	N/A
Hands-free experience	No

Product Specifications

Material	TPR
Size	4.4 x 2.6 x 2.6 inches
Weight	0.2 pounds

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Easy to Clean
• Discreet
• Travel-Friendly
• Versatile
• Affordable

Cons

• Size
• Limited Features
• Single Use
• Requires Lube
• Noisy

FAQ

Q: Can the Quickshot be used with other sex toys?

A: While the Quickshot is designed to be used on its own, there's no reason you can't use it with other toys if you're feeling adventurous. Just be sure to clean everything thoroughly afterward!

Q: Is the Quickshot waterproof?

A: Yes! The Quickshot is completely waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or bath without worrying about damaging it.

Q: Can the Quickshot be used with a partner?

A: While the Quickshot is designed for solo play, there's no reason you can't use it with a partner if you're feeling frisky. Just be sure to communicate your desires and boundaries beforehand.

Q: Can the Quickshot be used with different types of lube?

A: Yes, the Quickshot can be used with any type of lube you prefer. Just be sure to clean it thoroughly afterwards, as some lubes can leave behind residue that can be difficult to remove.

Q: Can the Quickshot be used with condoms?

A: While the Quickshot is designed to be used without a condom, there's no reason you can't use one if you prefer. Just be sure to use a water-based lube with latex condoms to avoid any potential damage.

And there you have it, my fabulous darlings! The Quickshot, the best easy-to-clean stroking toy on the market, has been thoroughly discussed and analyzed. We've covered everything from its pros and cons to its versatility and ease of use.Remember, self-pleasure is nothing to be ashamed of, and the Quickshot is the perfect toy for those who want to get off without all the hassle of cleanup.

#7 Tenga Flip and Go: The Best Discreet Stroking Toy

As a fabulous gay drag queen, I know a thing or two about the importance of self-care and, most importantly, self-love. That's why I'm here to introduce you to you one of the best discreet stroking toy in the market – Flip and Go. Let's get real, gentlemen, sometimes we need a little help from our trusted toys to reach the ultimate climax. But, the struggle to find a discreet and easy-to-use toy is real. That's where Flip and Go comes in, my dears.

Flip and Go is a sleek and compact stroking toy that can fit in your pocket. The design is discreet, and no one would suspect a thing if they found it lying around. It's also easy to use, with one button control for the stroking function. The stroking function on Flip and Go is next-level, honey. It has ten different speeds to choose from, and the texture is just right – not too rough, not too soft. It's like having a professional masseuse in your pants.

But let's not forget the not-so-fabulous parts.

The design, my darlings, is nothing to write home about. It's small, sure, but it's not discreet enough to carry around with you. It looks like a cheap knock-off of some other toy, and it doesn't give off the vibe of luxury or quality.

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	N/A
Sleeve Options	N/A
Hands-free experience	No

Product Specifications

Material	Elastomer, polycarbonate
Size	7.1 x 3.2 x 2.8 inches
Weight	1 pound

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Compact and discreet design
• Powerful stroking function with ten different speeds
• Rechargeable with a discreet charging function

Cons

• Texture of stroking function is just alright
• Charging function is not as discreet as advertised
• Noise level is enough to wake the neighbors

FAQ

Q: Can the noise level be reduced?

A: No, honey, the noise level is a constant, and there's no way to reduce it.

Q: How long does it take to charge Flip and Go?

A: It takes about 2 hours to charge fully.

Q: Can Flip and Go be used with a partner?

A: Sure, darling, but the noise level might be a mood-killer.

Q: Is the texture of the stroking function too rough or too soft?

A: It's neither, sweetie, it's just okay.

Q: Is Flip and Go waterproof?

A: No, honey, it's not waterproof, so be careful when cleaning it.

In conclusion, Flip and Go is the best discreet stroking toy in the market. It's compact, easy-to-use, and has a powerful stroking function. Whether you're single or in a relationship, Flip and Go is a must-have addition to your pleasure collection. So, what are you waiting for, darlings? Flip and Go and let the pleasure begin.

#8 Lovense Max 2: Stay Connected with the Best Stroking Toy for Long-Distance Couples

Are you in a long-distance relationship and feeling the burn of separation? Fear not, because I have the solution to all your problems – the Lovense Max 2. This little stroking toy will keep you and your partner connected no matter where you are.

Let's start with the design, sweethearts. The Lovense Max 2 is sleek, compact, and designed with long-distance couples in mind. It's easy to use, easy to clean, and discreet enough to carry around with you wherever you go.

But let's get real, nothing's perfect, not even this little gem.

The Lovense Max 2 can be a bit noisy, which may not be everyone's cup of tea - but hey, who needs quiet when you're screaming with pleasure? And the size may not be as satisfying for those who prefer a more full-bodied experience - but who needs a full-bodied experience when you've got this much pleasure at your fingertips?

So why is the Lovense Max 2 a top stroker?

Here's where the magic happens, my darlings – the connectivity. The Lovense Max 2 connects to an app that allows you and your partner to control each other's toys from anywhere in the world. You can sync it to music, use it for video chat, and even set vibration patterns. It's like having a virtual partner that you can control with your fingertips.

Quick Stats

Motor Speed	N/A
Sleeve Options	N/A
Hands-free experience	No

Product Specifications

Material	ABS plastic, silicone
Size	7.5 x 3.5 x 3.5 inches
Weight	1.3 pound
Power Source	USB rechargeable

Pros and Cons

Pros

• Connectivity: Stay connected to your partner no matter where you are in the world.
• Stroking Function: Powerful stroking function that mimics the sensation of real penetration.
• Convenience: Rechargeable, easy to use and clean, and small enough to fit in your luggage.

Cons

• Price: It's a bit pricey, honey.
• Noise Level: Can be a bit noisy, so find a private place.
• Learning Curve: Takes some time to figure out, but once you do, oh honey, it's worth it.

FAQ

Q: Is the Lovense Max 2 noisy?

A: No, honey, the Lovense Max 2 is designed to be discreet, so it's relatively quiet.

Q: How long does it take to charge the Lovense Max 2?

A: It takes about 2 hours to charge fully.

Q: Can the Lovense Max 2 be used without the app?

A: Yes, sweetie, but the app enhances the experience.

Q: Is the Lovense Max 2 waterproof?

A: Yes, darling, the Lovense Max 2 is waterproof, so you can take it in the shower with you.

Q: Can the Lovense Max 2 be used with a partner who doesn't have a Lovense toy?

A: Yes, my love, you can still use the app and control each other's toys, even if your partner doesn't have a Lovense toy.

In conclusion, the Lovense Max 2 is the best stroking toy for long-distance couples. It's designed with connectivity in mind and has a powerful stroking function. It's easy to use, easy to clean, and discreet enough to carry around with you. So, what are you waiting for, honey?

Snagging Your Perfect Pleasure Pal

Ready to find your new bed buddy? Here’s a quick guide to picking the perfect toy that’ll rock your world:

• Know Thyself: Start with what turns you on! Do you need something soft and slow, or are you all about power and speed? Understanding your pleasure preferences is key to a mind-blowing experience.
• Material Matters: Silicone? TPE? Latex? Your choice of material can make or break the fun. Silicone is a crowd-favorite for its hygienic and soft qualities, but don’t shy away from exploring others that might tickle your fancy.
• Size It Up: Size isn’t just about bragging rights. Think comfort, fit, and yes, how much you can handle. Whether it’s long and slim or short and girthy, choose a size that you’ll want to get up close and personal with.
• Special Features: Are you into the latest tech like Bluetooth and VR compatibility, or maybe something waterproof for some splashy fun? Pin down what special features will elevate your experience from good to toe-curling.
• Budgeting for Bliss: Good vibes shouldn’t cost an arm and a leg. Set a budget that allows for some indulgence without breaking the bank. Remember, a great experience is worth investing in!
• Reviews and Recommendations: Don’t just take our word for it. Dive into reviews and see what others are buzzing about. If a toy is a hit with the crowd, it might just be your next favorite.

Grabbing the right toy is all about making sure it vibes with you on all levels. So take your pick and get ready to turn the night up!

Wrap It Up: Best Gay Masturbators

And there you have it, gents—your golden ticket to pleasure town. Whether you’re a newbie on the block or a seasoned pro in the playroom, the right toy can make all the difference. It’s all about finding that perfect match that hits all the right spots and sings the sweetest melodies to your senses.

Don’t forget, the world of male masturbators is as vast and varied as the delights they deliver. So, dive in, experiment, and most importantly, have an absolute blast doing it. After all, it’s not just about the destination; it’s about enjoying the ride.

Stay curious, stay adventurous, and who knows? Your next favorite thrill might just be a click away.