How to Make a Homemade Fleshlight: DIY Male Masturbator Steps and Ideas

How to Make a Homemade Fleshlight: DIY Male Masturbator Steps and Ideas


Don’t want to spend on a masturbator? How about a home made fleshlight to spice up your solo sessions?

Fleshlight (no relation to Fleshy) is a popular male sex toy. And most people now use the name for all male masturbators, strokers, and pocket pussies.

Do you want to make your own fleshlight at home?

Continue reading!

Basic Principles of Fleshlight Construction

Consider the following factors to make the best homemade fleshlight:

Keep It Simple

Focus on what truly matters and keep your design simple. Complex masturbators don’t offer more satisfaction.

They can also take longer and more work to get it right.

You can roll items like a pair of socks or towels to make DIY strokers. Sponges inside a bottle can also make a good masturbator.

Types of Materials

Household items and random objects can help you make a sex toy. You can roll:

  • Socks
  • Towels
  • Toilet papers
  • Sponges

And put them inside:

  • Bottles
  • Cans
  • Tubes

Next, insert a glove or condom inside to start humping.

Read more about what a fleshlight is and how it works.

DIY Lubrication

Use plenty of lube (like our Glide) with your toy for a smooth and safe experience. Go for water-based lube for safety and convenience.

You can also make your favorite lube at home. Below are a few ideas:

Aloe Vera Bliss

  • Mix 2 tablespoons of aloe vera gel and 1 tablespoon of coconut oil
  • Stir well

Olive Oil Delight

  • Mix 4 tablespoons of olive oil and 1tablespoon of aloe vera gel
  • Stir well

Coconut Comfort

  • Melt 3 tablespoons of coconut oil
  • Mix 1 tablespoon of cornstarch
  • Stir continuously
  • Let the mixture cool

Best DIY Fleshlight Guide: Top 10 Male Masturbators to Make at Home

It’s time to get your hands dirty! Below are the instructions to make cheap and easy pocket pussies for men from everyday items.

1. Sock Masturbators: The Classic Male Companion

Items needed: A few socks, rubber bands, a latex glove

Difficulty level: Beginner

A pair of socks can turn into the perfect pleasure craft for your manhood. Here is what you need to do:

Step 1: Choose Your Sock Carefully

Select socks that speak to you. A texture that aligns with your preferences can make the experience more enjoyable.

Be sure to stick with soft socks.

Step 2: The Art of Rolling

roll socks into a  fleshlight
  • Put one sock inside the other
  • Roll them backward from the open end
  • Secure with a rubber band

Step 3: Insert Gloves

insert the glove into the socks fleshlight
  • Put a latex or medical glove inside the sock
  • Pull the glove cuff back to create an opening in the front
  • Secure with a couple of rubber bands

Step 4: Adjust the Tightness

You can tweak the tightness of your masturbator by securing several elastic bands across its length.

Feeling snug? Perfect!

Too tight? Give it a little room to breathe.

Now, hump your fake vagina to glory!

Alternate Method: The Glove Sandwich

You can try a variation of the classic sock method:

  • Fold two pairs of socks backward from the open end
  • Create stacks of two socks and place them side-by-side
  • Put each stack on both sides of the glove
  • Secure the whole thing with rubber bands
  • Pull the end of the gloves over the socks

2. Towel Fleshlight: Snug and Cozy

Items needed: A hand towel, a rubber glove or a condom

Difficulty level: Easy

A soft towel can help you build your pleasure fortress. You can try several ways to make your at-home fleshlight.

Method 1

rolled towel fleshlight
  • Fold the towel in quarters
  • Place the glove on one side with the cuff sticking out
  • Roll the towel around the glove
  • You can put a toothpaste tube inside the glove for convenience
  • Secure the roll with elastic bands

Method 2

folded towel fleshlight
  • Fold the towel sideways
  • The width of the fold should align with your penis’s length
  • Now, roll the towel from top to down
  • Secure the rolled towel with rubber bands
  • Put a condom or glove inside
  • Pull back the open end over the rolled towel

Pro Tip: Soak the towel in warm water for a cozy and realistic experience.

3. Toilet Paper Roll: Easy Homemade Fleshlight

toilet paper fleshlight

Items needed: A roll of toilet paper, an exam glove, rubber bands

Difficulty level: Beginner

Toilet paper can do more than wiping our asses. It can transform into a toilet paper roll masturbator for the ultimate bliss.

Here are the steps to follow:

Step 1: Remove Inner Cardboard Tube

Push the cardboard roll from inside the toilet paper. You will be left with only a roll of soft paper.

Step 2: Put Latex Gloves Inside

Slide the glove inside the paper roll with the front sticking out from one end. Now, pull back the open end over the paper roll.

Step 3: Secure Your Toy

Put a few rubber bands or ties across the paper roll for added tightness. Your homemade masturbator is now ready to use.

Pro tip: Use a textured roll of paper for heightened sensations. You can also replace the toilet paper with a bunch of paper towels.

4. Banana Homemade Strokers: A Fruity Delight

banana diy fleshlight

Items needed: A banana, a sharp knife, some tape, a condom

Difficulty level: Medium

Women are not the only ones to use a banana for pleasure. Men can also make an intense stroker with a banana.

Here are the instructions:

Step 1: Select the Right Banana

Choose a firm and unripe banana for your sensual project. It is easier to use the toy, and you have fewer chances of the peel coming apart.

Ensure the banana you choose is longer than your dick.

Step 2: Cut Both Ends

  • Cut both ends of the banana with a knife
  • Next, push or squeeze the fruit out of the banana tube

Step 3: Insert Condom

  • Cut the end of the condom and insert it inside the banana
  • Pull the other end so that the condom sticks out from both sides of the banana tube
  • Pull back both ends of the condom and pull them back over the banana
  • Secure the pulled-back condom ends with some tape

Step 4: Wrap Tape Over Banana

Cover the entire stroker with tape to make it firmer. You can now use your artificial vagina to your fullest satisfaction.

Tip: You may skip the condom and hump your banana stroker directly. The soft and mushy peel provides enough lubrication and superior bliss.

5. Pringles Can Masturbator: Realistic Homemade Pocket Pussies

pringles can fleshlight

Items needed: A can of pringles, soft sponges, a medical glove, some tape

Difficulty level: Medium

An empty can of Pringles can be the best homemade fleshlight for guys. It can help you build a unique pleasure topography for blissful experiences.

Choosing the Right Materials

You can use any tube, not just a Springle can, to make your toy. However, the tube should be long enough to accommodate your manhood.

The choice of sponges is also up to personal preferences. You can use kitchen sponges, cellulose sponges, and more.

Step 1: Clean the Can

Wipe any residue from the inner walls of the can with a paper towel. Make a hole in the base end to allow airflow.

Step 2: Place Sponges Inside

Place two sponges on top of one another on both inner sides of the can. The sponges should cover the entire length of the tube.

Step 3: Put Glove Inside

Place the gloves inside the gap of the sponges. Pull back the open end over the outer can and secure it with tape.

Alternate method: You can make a glove sandwich with sponges on both sides, like our sock masturbator. Secure the whole thing with bands and slide it inside the can.

Optional Step: Add More Texture and Resistance

You can make your pleasure journey exhilarating by adding a few household items inside the sponge masturbator.

A few ideas include:

  • Beads
  • More sponges (for a tighter feel)
  • Gummy bears
  • Lentils

Read more: Making A Pringles Can Fleshlight.

6. The Prison Fifi: The Next Best Thing to Pussy

prison fifi fleshlight

Items needed: A hand towel, 3 latex gloves, warm water, rubber bands

Difficulty level: Advanced

You have no access to coochie in prison. How do you satisfy your urges?

Let’s introduce the “prison fifi.” It is warm and wet and similar to our towel masturbator.

Here is how to make your own fifi:

Step 1: Prepare the Gloves

  • Lay the towel flat on a table
  • Fill the two gloves with warm water
  • Tie the open end with rubber bands like a balloon
  • Place a water-filled glove on the towel with the fingers pointing upward
  • Keep the empty glove on top of the water-filled counterpart with fingers pointing downward
  • Place the other water-filled glove on top of the empty glove with fingers pointing downward

Step 2: Roll the Towel

  • Fold the towel from the bottom upward to cover the three stacked gloves
  • Roll the towel from the side around the gloves (like the towel masturbator)
  • Secure the bottom of the towel with rubber bands

Step 3: Prepare the Entry

  • Pull back the cuff of the empty glove backward over the towel
  • Secure the glove cuff with a few elastic bands

Your DIY pocket pussy is ready. Below are a few tips for a more pleasurable experience:

  • Use hot water to fill the gloves. Your home made fleshlight will have the perfect temperature when you roll and prepare it.
  • Fill one glove with warm and the other with cold water for incredible temperature play.

7. Warm Melon: Soft and Obedient

melon fleshlight

Items needed: a melon, a knife, a spoon

Difficulty level: Beginner

A melon can delight your dick and not just your taste buds. You can turn any melon into a mushy pussy by following the steps below:

  1. Make a hole with a knife at the center of the melon
  2. Scoop out some flesh using a spoon
  3. Put on a condom and start banging

A few tips for an enjoyable experience:

  • Try different melons for varying sensations and resistance
  • Warm the melon in the microwave before use for a cozy adventure

8. Plastic Bottle Strokers: A Feel of Genuine Fleshlight

bottle fleshlight

Items needed: A plastic bottle, sponges, bubble wrap, a scissor, a knife, a glove, rubber bands

Difficulty level: Advanced

This stroker is pretty similar to the Pringles can masturbator. You put two sponges to make a tunnel inside a bottle.

Next, you place a stretchy exam glove in the tunnel to make your toy. Here is a slight variation for a far more superior experience:

Step 1: Prepare the Bottle

  • Cut the top of a clean plastic bottle with your knife
  • Cut a circle from the sponge matching the diameter of the bottom of the bottle
  • Put the circle inside the bottle and push it to the bottom
  • Put the other two sponges inside
  • Push them against the wall to make a tunnel

Step 2: Place the Sleeves

  • Fold a bubble wrap into a tube
  • Place it inside the tunnel between the sponges with ends sticking out
  • Put the stretchy exam glove inside the bubble wrap tunnel
  • Pull back the glove cuff backward over the bottle
  • Secure with rubber bands

You can pop the bubbles while pumping your toy for amazing sensations.

9. Pillow Thruster: Your Hands-Free Hump Station

pillows masturbator

Items needed: A pillow, a bed or sofa

Difficulty level: Super easy

You might have already tried this way of hands-free masturbation. Here is what you need to do:

  1. Find a bed or sofa
  2. Put a pillow on top of it
  3. Slide a condom on your dick
  4. Press down the pillow hard with your hands
  5. Slide your dick in and out

You can use any at-home fleshlight this way for a hands-free experience.

10. Cornstarch Pocket Pussy: Flexible and Responsive

Items needed: Cornstarch, a long glass, a carrot, a pointed object

Difficulty level: Advanced

Choose a glass that is longer than your manhood. It should be straight and not wider at the bottom.

Step 1: Prepare Cornstarch Mixture

pour water on cornstarch

Mix cornstarch and water in a bowl in 2:1 ratio (200ml water for every 100gm cornstarch)

  • Pour the cornstarch into the glass
  • Pour water in small amounts
  • Mix the solution

Step 2: Make Cornstarch Mold

use a carrot in the cornstarch mixture
  • Microwave the contents in the glass on full power for 1.5 minutes
  • The mixture will begin to turn solid
  • Put the carrot in the middle of the glass and push it inside
  • The carrot should leave a gap of about 2cm from the bottom
  • Remove the carrot
  • Microwave for another minute

Step 3: Cool the Cornstarch Fleshlight

cornstarch fleshlight in a glass
  • Put the glass in the fridge

Your toy will be ready to use after an hour. Remove it from the glass and let it warm up before use.

Boost Pleasure Sensations

Unleash the DIY maestro in you and make your toys more pleasurable.

  • Explore textures: Turn your toys into tactile wonderlands with ribbed fabrics or textured gloves. Add items like gel beads for bliss bumps.
  • Experiment with sensations: Adjust levels of tightness, create varying resilience, and try different rhythms and paces.
  • Temperature play: Warm and cool your toy for varying experiences. Alternate with hot and cold lube for extra sensations.

Vibrating DIY Fleshlight: Advanced Pleasure

Take your DIY toy to the next level by incorporating vibration. You can use objects like electric toothbrushes and small massagers to bring a buzz to your experience.

toothbrush and massager

However, consider the safety of the materials. Use body-safe items; never hook the vibrating device to a power outlet when inside a toy.

Customize Your Creation

Make your masturbator fit your preferences. You can:

  • Experiment with different designs, textures, and materials. Use your creativity to make the most of the experience.
  • Add adjustable features and detachable elements to boost your satisfaction. Adjust the tightness or play with the suction for added sensations.
  • Explore different sizes and shapes around your manhood. Compact, elongated, or narrow – the choices are many.


What is a homemade fleshlight?

A homemade fleshlight is a replica of a popular male sex toy. It involves making a tunnel of various materials to masturbate.

Do People Usually Make Homemade Fleshlights?

Yes, people usually make homemade fleshlights to masturbate. It gives you more pleasure than using your hands.

Check out if they feel like the real thing.

Is it cost-effective compared to buying a fleshlight?

Making a masturbator at home is cost-effective compared to buying a fleshlight. You may not even make one without money.

How can I make a fleshlight at home?

You can roll common household items like socks and towels to make a fleshlight at home. Secure the roll with ties and put a glove or condom inside.

How long does it take to make a DIY fleshlight?

It can take 5 minutes to several hours to make a DIY fleshlight.

Is it safe to make a homemade fleshlight?

It is completely safe to make a homemade fleshlight using grocery stores items.

Prepare for Homemade Pleasure

You can make a masturbator at home with everyday items like socks and towels. The trick is to roll them to form a tunnel inside, where you place a sock or glove.

Next, secure all the ends and insert your manhood into the opening for a real experience.

Focus on simplicity, and don’t be afraid to experiment. Try various textures, shapes, and materials. You can also use small massagers to introduce vibration in your toys.

Homemade toys can never match the experience of professional masturbators. Try Fleshy Pro for ultimate satisfaction and bliss.

It is the best toy in town, with countless modes of suction to drain your load.

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